Saturday, May 24, 2014

Psychological Trauma is the root to Self Harming.

This question from Yahoo Answers is a great illustration of what and why a self harmer cuts.
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Mom found out about self harm and is ignoring me?

So I wrote a letter to my mom telling her about my self harm and now she is ignoring me..she pretends I don't even exist and she's told my dad that i'm only allowed to wear long sleeves and on really hot days I can pretend that my arm is sprained and wear bandages btw it's summer. I feel so ashamed...I can't take it!!! It would take forever to explain my story..let's just say there is a lot of physical, psychological, and emotional abuse going on in my house.       "


To help a self harmer to recover and stop harming is a very difficult thing. It takes time and patience and therapy. Very deep therapy. As this boy describes that he comes from an abusive household. How does a child leave a home when he is not grown enough to understand how to make it on his own. The abuse will continue until he is old enough to be on his own. What child wants to turn in an abusive parent or parents. The state will bring havoc in his life if he does. Its very difficult working with adolescent victims of abuse and neglect. Often times they dont get help until they are a young adult. By that time they often have turned to drugs and alcohol to cope.


"AS THE TWIG IS BENT SO SHALL THE TREE GROW"

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